A startup’s first few months
Starting your own company can be easy, hard, boring, fun, exciting or scary. It all depends on what you make of it. If you do start your own venture, it probably means you’re up for the challenge and you’d like to create something of your own, which you strongly believe in. That’s the best reason to start your own startup.
The first few months of a startup both get you excited and lost at times. You’re excited because you’re starting something truly of your own. You’re lost because you don’t yet know what exactly it is. In my case, no idea at all. It is really true when people say “the devil is in the details”. The more you delve into the details the more lost you get. Don’t worry though, because you will figure it out.
Perseverance is your engine and innovation is its fuel. You must accept that you will deal with several new problems every single day. Whether it is a conflict with one of your partners, a technical bug, not having money to pay the bills or your girlfriend telling you you’re not around enough. Don’t let these things discourage you. Come up with innovative ways to fix them because you can. If you have partnership misunderstandings, try to support your partner and show them you’re there for them. If you don’t have enough money to pay some of your bills, sell something you don’t need that much on craigslist or ebay. Take your girlfriend out to a nice musical or play (I recommend Dirty Dancing). Yes girls like these things and you would even get surprised that you might even like it because let me tell you the quality of that show is phenomenal.
At first you might not have a clear idea on what you wnat to do. It took us almost 3 months to find that one idea. You’ll end up scrapping 200-300 ideas maybe. Don’t worry because if you think about it hard enough, you’ll find the problem.
You might need money while you’re coming up with that great idea. So get a part time job somewhere and set regular hours in every week with your partners to get together and discuss business. It’s always great to have a team that is both critical and optimistic at the same time. Critics find the flaws of the optimist’s thoughts and the optimists help the critics find motivation in those thoughts although they have flaws. Don’t think things are not moving forward if ideas get criticised.
Yours truly,
Rokham Fard






December 8th, 2008 at 7:30 pm
Great post, the start up life is hard! Your approach to constantly solving problems as they come up is bang on.
January 11th, 2009 at 9:29 pm
Awesome post
You know what rokham ?! I just feel that I’m not alone, the feelings, thoughts, concerns, they are all exact same as what I have right now.
Also you have a great skill on writing your feelings.